LIFE, THOUGHTS

Few words: 3


“NEVER LET GO YOUR DREAMS,
BECAUSE THAT’S THE ONLY THINGS WE LIVE IN REAL FOR…”

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FRIENDS, LIFE, POEMS

That one friend..!


Do you have that one friend,
You can trust,
You can yell and shout at?
Like I have the one in you.
Do you have that one friend,
You can share,
You can call and talk at mid of the night??
Like I have the one in you.
Do you have that one friend,
You can cry,
You can drain your heart out,
Like I have the one in you.
Do you have that one friend,
You can rely,
You can be free and real,
Like I have the one in you.

Your words make me go stronger again,
Your presence shows me your care,
Your friendship is the most affluent thing,
I wanna always preserve and don’t wanna share.

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My that one friend...!!!
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“VIRGINITY…!” Is this really what matters to the men gender in INDIA???


Virginity-

A Question On Girls’ Morality – Youth Blog of India –

“Are you pure?”

asked the guy who came to see Seema for marriage.

“Pure??” Seema couldn’t get his question.

“Pure as in untouched?” he clarified.

Seema now understood what he wanted to ask.

“What are you looking for a girl to marry or ghee?”she replied agitated by such a

question.

He was shocked at such a reply, but before he could say anything, Seema continued,

“Well you can say if there was an exam about ‘purity’ I wouldn’t top it!”

His family left.

Next day he rang up Seema’s dad and told him that he can’t marry Seema as she is a girl with low morals. Bang on!

 

Welcome to the progressive India where we claim to be modern people but still make Virginity a base to check a girl’s morals or her capability to become a good wife.

Today when we claim that women have an equal status in the society with that of men, we still are under the orthodox views of using a white bed sheet on the first night of marriage just to check the bride’s virginity!!

The guy may himself have slept with number of girls but he wants a “pure”/“untouched” girl as a wife.

Why??

ANSWER:-

just to satisfy his male ego that the girl he is going to spend his life with has been and will be only his “possession”.

If today a girl loses her virginity with a guy she loves truly but the guy turns out to be a cheat then she is tagged as a “slut”/“characterless girl”.!

MIND YOU these being the most decent words I can pen down,

else there are a millions of: more worse words in our mother tongue vocabulary.

I ask what is the mistake of the girl??

She loved a guy?

She slept with someone she thought she would marry?

Or, she now has lost her purity which would satisfy her to-be husband’s male ego and make him believe that she is fit to be his wife!

And again no answers I could get!

I completely support the fact that we Indians should not give up on our morals and accept everything that westernisation gives us but I wonder how can a biological wall in the girl’s body by breaking decide the level of her morals?

I mean Seema could have been a great wife, she was marrying the guy her parents chose may be she had a bad past., But all that was seen was that she wasn’t pure!

And I am forced to wonder that what would happen to those rape victims?

Who would marry those girls?

Moreover a girl from a sports background, has always been told by those orthodox distant relatives to Quit it, why? because playing may result in breakage of the “moral wall”!

“Urggghhh”.!that’s what  I have always thought after hearing that!!

Yes, I am also a girl, an Indian girl, who values her morals, for whom her “izzat” is priceless, who has always dreamt of her “raajkumar” coming on a white horse to marry her, and who has always planned her wedding dress!

But I am also a girl who belongs to the globalism world, interacts with the Opposite sex, loves, has break-ups, overcomes them and Smiles again and no one has a right to tag me any thing…

For that reason!!!!

I just request you that next time you go looking for a girl for marriage, search for a true heart and not something like “pure ghee”, because she ‘s gonna be your life partner and not your meal to satisfy your hunger of ego.

When you look at a beautiful girl coming dressed in a red lehanga leaving her world behind, to become a part of your world, accept her, make her life a bed of roses rather than testing her loyalty by making her lay down on a bed with white bed sheet because true love will make your marriage successful, her“PURITY” won’t.

just another way of gender discrimination.

It’s up to you. MAKE A STEP AHEAD… THINK AGAIN,

So that we can proudly say we are proud to be Indians..: A lot of men think they are doing women a favour by asking for her hand in marriage, but let’s think about this :

She changes her name,

Changes her home,

Leaves her family,

Moves in with you,

Builds a home with you,

Gets pregnant for you,

Pregnancy changes her body,

She gets fat,

Almost gives up in the labour room due to the unbearable pains of child-birth,

Even the kids she delivers bear your name.

Till the day she dies…Everything she does, (cooking, cleaning your house, taking care of your parents,bringing up your children, earning, advising you, ensuring you can be relaxed, maintaining all family relations, everything that benefit you…..sometimes at the cost of her own health , hobbies and beauty.

 So who is really doing whom a favour?

 Dear men appreciate the women in your lives always, co’z it is not easy to be a woman.

 *Being a woman is priceless *

RESPECT HER, TREAT HER LIKE PRINCESS, SHE DESERVES THIS…

proud to be women.

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I’ve learned.


If  you will take the time to read these. I promise you’ll come  away with an enlightened perspective. The subjects covered  affect us all, on a daily basis:
   
They’re  written by Andy Rooney, a man who had the gift of saying so  much with so few words.  ………Enjoy………

I’ve  learned …That  the best classroom in the world is at the feet of an elderly  person.

I’ve  learned ….  That when you’re in love, it shows. 

I’ve  learned ….  That just one person saying to me, ‘You’ve made my day!’  makes my day.

I’ve  learned ….  That having a child fall asleep in your arms is one of the  most peaceful feelings in the  world.

I’ve  learned ….  That being kind is more important than being  right.

I’ve  learned ….  That you should never say no to a gift from a child.

I’ve  learned ….  That I can always pray for someone when I don’t have the  strength to help him in some other way. 

I’ve  learned ….  That no matter how serious your life requires you to be,  everyone needs a friend to act goofy with. 

I’ve  learned ….  That sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a  heart to understand.

I’ve  learned ….  That simple walks with my father around the block on summer  nights when I was a child did wonders for me as an  adult.

I’ve  learned ….  That life is like a roll of toilet paper. The closer it gets  to the end, the faster it goes.

I’ve  learned ….  That we should be glad God doesn’t give us everything we ask  for.

I’ve  learned ….  That money doesn’t buy class.

I’ve  learned ….  That it’s those small daily happenings that make life so  spectacular.

I’ve  learned ….  That under everyone’s hard shell is someone who wants to be  appreciated and loved.

I’ve  learned ….  That to ignore the facts does not change the  facts.

I’ve learned ….  That when you plan to get even with someone, you are only  letting that person continue to hurt  you.

I’ve  learned ….  That love, not time, heals all  wounds.

I’ve  learned ….  That the easiest way for me to grow as a person is to  surround myself with people smarter than I  am.

I’ve  learned ….  That everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a  smile..

I’ve  learned ….  That no one is perfect until you fall in love with them.

I’ve  learned …  That life is tough, but I’m tougher. 

I’ve  learned ….  That opportunities are never lost; someone will take the  ones you miss.

I’ve  learned ….  That when you harbor bitterness, happiness will dock  elsewhere.

I’ve  learned ….  That I wish I could have told my Mom that I love her one  more time before she passed away.

I’ve  learned ….  That one should keep his words both soft and tender, because  tomorrow he may have to eat them.

I’ve  learned …..  That a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your  looks.

I’ve  learned …..  That when your newly born grandchild holds your little  finger in his little fist, that you’re hooked for  life.

I’ve  learned ….  That everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all  the happiness and growth occurs while you’re climbing it.

I’ve  learned ….  That the less time I have to work with, the more things I  get done..

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Let Hope Rise & Darkness Tremble.


Morning lazy sun,
Each day arrives on time,
Let the night moon be stubborn though,
Spreading the rays around is no crime.

Slimly laser beam,
Crosses the darkness with a flee,
Even with the narrowest way,
The spark of light shines bright away.

Betrayed shredder love,
Captivates plenty of souls,
Let the hatred be cruel sharp as knife,
The passion of love fades the heartless away.

Crushed hopeless thoughts,
Still struggling to rise ahead,
Let the trust and faith be more stronger,
So the hopes rises and the darness trembles down again…

   

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I found Myself.


When I had nothing to lose,
I had everything.
When I stopped being who am I,
I found myself.

When I had no more regrets,
I gained everything.
When I stopped being a puppet,
I found myself.

When I had to clear my soul,
I washed away everything.
When I stopped being the mask,
I found myself.

When I had only option to smile,
I was happy in everything.
When I stopped portraying myself,
I found myself.

When courage was the only way,
I left behind everything.
When I stopped stay in one place,
I found myself living again… “Happy”..:)))

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Chronological changes…


We sometimes fail to perceive,
That changes are always for best
In the phase of grumbling,
We rather get focused on the rest.

Turned into an responsible girl,
From the cudding baby,
I learned to fulfill my roles,
When others played with the tabbies.

I moulded into a loving and faithful lover,
When my love got accepted by him,
He made me a lady handling chaos,
When others got upset for their rims.

I turned independent,
When I moved away for habitats,
He left me with disapproval,
Tears made me strong and more compatible.

When I lived alone in distance,
Cherishing the givings from lord,
Some friends left me to be self dependant,
I became one with my own self.

In the chronological passing days,
Everything that changed,
Changed for betterments,
And set my soul freed…

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Ocean of clouds…


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Ocean of clouds.

Floating in the air,
31000 fts above the ground,
The very first tym experience,
It felt amazing I found.

Dreams to touch the sky,
Feel the fluffy vapour bags,
Everything was breathtaking,
With all around the cloudy sags.

Like a blow on the cotton buds,
Like the snowfalls in cold,
Like the fairytale land of ice cakes,
It spread in all dimensions like an never ending fold.

Somewhere I assume to be in the toon world,
Playing, jumping and lying on the clouds,
It all felt so childish to behave,
But I couldn’t resist my first time ride.

Such a significant aura,
Magnifying my inner soul,
Acquiring the wider bandwidth,
To fly up so high with all around big holes…

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The Power to let go


Let me say, “goodbye”,

Let me set myself free,

Let me move on in life,

Let me get away from cries.

A smile of forgiveness,

A glimpse of forgetfulness,

Leaving each past behind,

Let me walk towards my future bright.

No regrets,

No thoughts to bother,

A part of life came to an end,

Part ended not the life descend.

The power to let go,

The embrace of freeness,

Just relieving my soul to reality,

Again in an action of purity.

It happens for a reason,

The reason is always better,

Trust in the path your walking,

Beside you there is always walking a divine.

Let-It-Go